Hanuman Toka Puja

Hanuman Toka Puja:-
It is very nice puja. I have seen people who have done this puja and settled in life. This puja is performed to get nice job and settle in life. For this puja, we need Hanuman patam which has long tail shown nicely. We do this puja for hanumans tail, which smashed lanka. We should do this puja for 41 days. Each day we should keep nice and small bottu to Toka. Like that 41 days we should keep 41 bottus to Toka. We can do puja as we like, we should keep hanumans favourite prasadams like Appalu/Kajuram/banana and can read Dhandakam and Chalisa.I will let you know if i get any more information on this puja.

Hanuman Pujas

Many kind of hanuman pujas are there. We do different kind of puja for different purposes.
For Health or to be brave:-
Daily read Hanuman Chalisa for 11 times.Do like this for 11 days. It will be good to do like this for good health.Its always good to read hanuman chalisa once before going to bed. If you want you can put Appalu(hanuman likes them everymuch) as prasadham to Hanuman.
For Job:-
Daily take water in a ragi chembu and take it to the nearest temple which has Raavi Chettu and Hanuman temple.Put that water to Raavi chettu and do 11 pradakshanalu. If we like we can put deepam and do puja.If we don't, thats fine. Now go to Hanuman idol and do 11 pradakshanalu to him. after that read Hanuman chalisa one time. Do like this 11 days continuously.On last day put Kajuram as prasadam to Hanuman. You will definitely get a nice job.

Vaibhava Lakshmi puja.

We can start this puja either on thurday or fridays. Normally Vaibhavalakshmi puja is done for 5/8/11/21 weeks, ie every friday in a week.This puja is basically to get more money or for sauybagyam(for husband's life). on those fridays, whole day fasting should be done until evening puja is finished. night we can have dinner.For this pooja we require Mahaalakshmi idol,shri yanthram, Ganapathi idol,a red blouse piece,silver or copper small pot for kalasham,beetle leaves,any silver or gold ornament,a glass of raw rice.Lakshmi Devi likes sweet.so we should keep only sweet prasadams for her. should not make anything with pulupu(tamarind) and should invite atleast 5 muthaidulu (married ladies) on that day.Should read Vaibhavalakshmi puja kadha(story) and other things which are there in Vaibhavalakshmi puja book. For puja,Kalisam should be kept (Little rice below pot,little water in the pot,leaves on pot,coconut,red blouse piece on it), One Vaibhavalakshmi matha vigraham(idol), we should keep this on one small pita(small stool).After puja, we should give thambulam and should get blessings from those 5 muthaidhulu. On fifth friday,we should keep dinner for 5 or 8 muthaidulu,should give thambulam(betel leaves,2 fruits,1 rupee coin,vakka) and should give Vaibhavalakshmi puja book,red bangles,mirror, kumkuma,pasupu,katika,comb,some bowl or blouse piece as we like. Now a days I have seen many people doing it. They said that their desire is fullfilled. We can do this puja for any other desires also. on first day, make a wish you would like to have and then start puja, by 5th friday your wish would be fullfilled.

Things I like in my husband

Many people share their sorrows, problems, issues, bad experiences. But normally we hesitate to share our affection to others.So, Today i felt like i should tell myself how much my husband likes me.

Situations which made me feel that he likes me are.... very small like
1.daily he fills 4 bottles of water for me. I just don't like bending to fill water bottles. so he does for me. ofcourse sometimes he misses. :)
2. Daily he drops my daughter at her school. though he doesn't like this job.he does for me.
3. If i ask anything he always try to bring it for me. If its not possible for him immediately, he will keep it in his back of mind.eg: Lasik treatment for my eyes, Invertor for house.
4.If i start crying na...he doesn't like. he immediately makes friendship with me. he doesn't care who is right and who is wrong, he immediately says sorry. so sweet na.
5.He finds out my feelings very easily.he can tell easly whether iam dull or sad or happy...very easily.
6.When iam tired, he presses my neck, hands and legs.
7.He kept two plots on my name. my dad never kept any plot on my mothers name.so i feel that he likes me so much.
8. he always treats me as an important person in his life. May be his life itself.

List of things i don't like in my husband may be much more longer. i will do it some other time.
I like my husband so so so much. not because of above reasons. but i find no reason. I don't know actually why i like him. I just like him so much.