My daughter's Query

My elder daughter is very naughty and smarter as her father. She shows us her logical side too. Yesterday I scolded her for something, normally I don’t scold her instead I pamper her a lot. I just told her to read for sometime. That’s it. She got angry and told – why you always scold me only- why don’t you scold Dad? I told her that he is a smart guy and I doesn’t need to tell him to study and he is our head of the family. She said -Why always he is Head of the Family? Can’t I be head of the family? That’s her question. I laughed for 5 mins. To escape from studies and scoldings, she want to become head of the family. I wonder how I can handle this girl in her growing years.